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One of the most difficult aspects of going through a divorce is all the uncertainty, especially around finances. It's really hard to make plans when you have no idea where the pieces are going to land. Will you be able to afford to stay in the home? Will you have to move? Will you have to change jobs or go back to work? Will the kids have to change schools? Will you have enough to retire? Will you be able to continue to save for retirement, college or emergency savings

Charcoal and Pencil Girl Laughing While divorce signals a painful ending, there is no ending that does not also include a beginning. Allow yourself the space to fully feel and grieve that ending, see a therapist, journal, reflect on your contributions to the marriage ending with your therapist etc. Then turn your attention to creating your new beginning even if it feels far into the future. Are there any things that you always wanted to do or to try that you never seemed to

Time published an article by Oona Metz, 'Why So Many Women Initiate Divorce'.  Reading along I found myself nodding my head with many of the reasons echoing why I chose to end my own marriage.  The main passage that hit home with me was:   " …despite years of effort, they are unable to engage their spouses in improving their partnerships. In many cases, their spouses have disengaged or abandoned the spoken and unspoken rules of marriage, leaving women cornered into choosing d

Divorce will change their lives, without question. The real questions here are "will we have to move", "will they have to change schools", "will we be able to afford their extracurricular activities" and the thing that underpins all those questions, "will my kids be ok"? The short answer is: Yes, your kids lives are going to be drastically changing because divorce is a drastic change, and yes, they will be ok. Chances are high that one of you is going to move out. How

I wish I had known that there were more resources available to me than mediators and lawyers. I'd quickly dismissed mediation because I'd felt like I was being bullied so I wanted an advocate. Had I known about any of the resources below, I would have used them. There are Certified Divorce Financial Analysts® (CDFA®'s like me) that help you figure out your finances. There are Certified Divorce Lending Professionals that have training in sticky divorce situations who can h

Navigating Divorce Finances: A Comprehensive Guide Divorce is a challenging and often emotionally draining process. Aside from the personal aspect, one of the most significant aspects of divorce is often the financial implications. Planning and managing finances during and post-divorce can be overwhelming, but with the right guidance, individuals can navigate this complex terrain more effectively. When going through a divorce, it is crucial to have a solid understanding of yo

Going through a divorce can be incredibly challenging, emotionally, and financially. It’s a time of transition, where making sound financial decisions is crucial for ensuring a stable future. This is where divorce financial planning comes into play, providing individuals with the guidance and support they need to navigate the complexities of dividing assets and planning for the future. At Art of Divorce, we understand the importance of building a supportive community for indi